Lucky:Is it a sin to have a love marriage and where parents do not understand the children's point of choice ! is it forbidden to have a love marriage n a boy to stand n tell his parents he wants 2 get married to a gal of his choce n they throw tantrums! will anybody answere to my above questions pls???at my email id........lucywinner2003@hotmail.com

Farida Gulamaliwala:I am for love marraige.This is my personal experience that I was married where my parents wanted me to.I agreed because my father was adamant to marry me to his cousin sister's son.But I couldn't adjust myself to their lifestyle or the family.The marraige ended in a divorce.So I feel that knowing a person before marriage,liking the person, while staying in the limits is no harm.

Huzy:either arranged or love marriage everthing depends on understanding of each other than blaming on some oneelse. love n arrange marriage r same thy diff between love is that first u fall in love then get married and arrange marriage u marry first then fall in love.

Abdul:i would go for love marraiges rather than arranged marraiges.to strengthen my stand i would like to add that in love marraiges both the partners get a chance to know each other very well which leads to happy and prosperous married life.Arranged marraiges do not provide much interaction between the spouces which ultimately leads to failure.well love marraiges makes life happy.

Hero:marrige is not right at the first time. but at some times ago every body says "what it is".

Zainul:Love is nothing more than attraction,Marriage is nothing just simple understanding between to wise people.

Has:Arrange marriage lasts longer coz thr's more understanding between the couples.

Mustan:Arrange marriage is more stronger but love marriage is not. In love marriage its a case of - aaj dil tum pe aya, kal dusre per, parsu tisre per.

Mustafa: In my opinion arranged marriage is less riskier than love marriage, but for a while it is difficult to adjust to the person.

Hatim: Love is surely a more natural way to be together. A marriage based on love makes more sense.

Rahana: Arrange marriage bujhaye only pyaas baki sub bakwas. Love marriage yeh dil mange more ahaan.

Sheena: Arrange marriage is more stronger bond than love which most of the time it is based on infatuation.

Rukhsana: Marriage is nothing only the understanding and adjustment with the partner, irrespective of love marriage or arrange marriage.

Adnan: Marriages are made in heaven, so it is so called that no one should keep on running for finding his partner, and the final thing is that the love is blind, and a blind can never guide you through the right way, i think arranged marriagess gives more time to both the man and woman to understand each other without any bindings (thats the relation of love in love affairs).

Shahina: Arranged is better i think!! but let them try for love those who like luv...we can do it 4 times!!! isn't it!!???

Nafi: For me love is the most important for marriage.It should be arrange or love.If we love somebody before marriage so it said love marriage and after marriage it said arrange.The most important thing is love in both sutuation.If we love someone we can do everything for him or her.it all depend on us.

Fakhruddin / Fardeen:
1.Love Marriage:
Resembles procedural programming language. We have some set functions like flirting, going to movies together, making long conversations on phone and then try to fit all functions to the candidate we like.
Arranged Marriage:
Similar to object oriented programming approach. We first fix the candidate and then try to implement functions on her. The main object is fixed and various functions are added to supplement the main program. The functions can be added or deleted.

2. Love Marriage:
It is a throwaway type of prototype as client requirements rises with time thus it is a dynamic system and difficult to maintain.
Arranged Marriage:
Requirements are well defined so use of waterfall model is possible.

3. Love Marriage:
Family system hangs because hardware called parents are not responding.
Arranged Marriage:
Compatible with hardware i.e. Parents.

4. Love Marriage:
You are the project leader so u are responsible for implementation and execution of PROJECT- married life.
Arranged Marriage:
You are a team member under project leader parents so they are responsible for successful execution of project Married life.

5. Love Marriage:
Client expectations include exciting feature as spouse cooking food, washing clothes etc.
Arranged Marriage:
All these features are covered in the SRS as required features.

6. Love Marriage:
Acceptance test possible you can try before you Buy.
Arranged Marriage:
Product is sold as it is, what and where it is basis.

But mind it, test and check your kind and means carefully before you choose. Product once sold will not be taken back.* **