Sharman Family History (part 1)

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I am Robin Edward Sharman (born 12.7.1954 in Nottingham, England) and my interests include the genealogy and history of my family. Our Sharman genealogy has been traced back for over 400 years mostly in the Rutland and west Lincolnshire areas. More recently we moved into Nottinghamshire, and despite some shuttling between Notts. and Lincs. we ended up in Robin Hood's county. For some time I have been working on the story of my branch of the Sharman Family over the last hundred years. It is based on my research with help from my father, Henry Sharman (junior), my late Aunt Frances and a number of other relatives. I have tried to include a number of anecdotes to give the story some life and to emphasise that it is a tale about real people.

This page is a heavily edited extract from the second part of the Sharman Family History that I wrote and had printed in 2002. It ran to 46 sides of A4, and covered my line of Sharmans from Richard who died in 1554 to me and my family in the present day. Naturally as our story progresses through time the information becomes more readily available, therefore some of the early stuff is less detailed. The first edition is now sold out, but I am already working on a second edition which is expected to include photographs - something that the first edition lacked. To register your interest in obtaining a copy, please e-mail me on resharman@hotmail.com.

This map is a sketch of much of Rutland and part of the area of Lincolnshire known as Kesteven. It should be noted that:
1. Only the villages relevant to our story are included.
2. The dotted lines represent county boundaries.
3. It is a sketch map only, and is not to scale.

    Part One : The Sharmans up to the Nineteenth Century
(click here for Part Two)

Almost exactly four hundred years before my own birth in 1954 my earliest known ancestor RICHARD SHARMAN willed (on 20th April 1554) his properties at Greetham and North Luffenham to his son WILLIAM SHARMAN. Richard is recorded as being a husbandman (an archaic word for a farmer), and his wife's name was Agnes. William was Richard's eldest son who in turn, sometime between 1582 and 1589, himself had a son who was named Thomas. THOMAS SHARMAN, who was buried at Greetham on 4th January 1660, was married to Mary. They had at least two children, both christened at Greetham - Ann on 31st December 1620, and THOMAS on 28th August 1625. Mary was buried on 26th September 1653 and Thomas Sharman the Elder (to quote from the parish register) on 4th January 1660 - both at Greetham.

The second THOMAS SHARMAN was a carpenter and he had a wife named Elizabeth. From their wills we know that they had at least five children - Francis, Mary, THOMAS, William and Richard - and the parish registers show one before these, a son named …Thomas! We shall be following the descendants of the surviving Thomas, which will increase further the risk of confusion, but first a few lines on the others.

We know that the second Thomas in our line (father of the above listed and the third Thomas) had died by 1694, because at her burial at Greetham on 8th January that year Elizabeth is described as a widow. However, the Greetham burial registers of this time seem to be incomplete.

The third THOMAS SHARMAN in our line of descent (the son of Thomas and Elizabeth above) was christened at Greetham on 20th February 1666. He was a carpenter and is mentioned in the Clipsham Wood Book of 1697. Elizabeth was buried on 18th July 1741, and Thomas on 7th February 1742 - both at Greetham. Thomas and Elizabeth had at least four children christened at Greetham - THOMAS, Elizabeth (29th January 1698), Robert (27th February 1704) and Richard (12th May 1706).

THOMAS SHARMAN (the fourth Thomas in our line) was christened at Greetham on 11th October 1696. He married at Exton on 30th December 1722. The parish records show the name of his bride as Susanna Masser, but strangely the incumbent at Exton mistook his own handwriting when copying up his notes and her name was in fact Susanna Walker! Susanna was the daughter of John and Elizabeth Walker of Exton, and had been christened there on 23rd June 1700. Thomas and Elizabeth lived at Exton until they died - Thomas on 23rd January 1781 aged eighty-five years (buried at Exton on 28th January), and Susanna in 1778 (she was buried at Exton on 11th October) aged seventy-eight years. Thomas and Susanna had a large family. There are christening records for nine children, whilst a memorial stone at Exton records ten - Thomas, John, ROBERT, William, Susanna, Francis, Elizabeth, Mary, Richard and Ann.

The parish records show also the christening of Mary Sharman, daughter of Thomas and Susannah, at Exton on 1st December 1740. It is unclear whether this is the same Mary as above or another child so named due to the death of the first one. The latter seems more likely, making a total of eleven children.

ROBERT SHARMAN, Thomas and Susanna's third child, was christened on 31st December 1728 at Exton. He was a tailor by trade, and on 29th May 1751 he married Sarah Bursnall at Whissendine. Robert was buried at Whissendine on 31st March 1801, having outlived his wife Sarah by almost six years - she was buried at Whissendine on 18th May 1795. There are records of eight of their children being christened at Exton - John, ROBERT, Susanna, Elizabeth, William and Mary, Sarah and Catherine.

ROBERT SHARMAN junior (son of Robert and Sarah) was christened at Whissendine on 30th November 1755. He was married twice - his first marriage was to Elizabeth Reynolds and took place at Whissendine on 12th October 1778. The register entry records his occupation as tailor. Robert and Elizabeth had three children christened at Whissendine - William on 24th April 1780 (he died early in 1786 and was buried on 17th January), Ann on 3rd March 1782, and Robert on 18th July 1785. We have no more definite details on the lives of these children of Robert's first marriage. Elizabeth died in 1788, and was buried at Clipsham on 3rd February.

Before the year was out Robert Sharman married again. This time his bride was twenty-four years old Mary Maxey who he married in her home village of Swinstead on 23rd December 1788. Mary's father was Charles Maxey, who was a stonemason frequently employed on work at Grimsthorpe Castle according to Ancaster Estate records. Charles Maxey became Parish Clerk at Swinstead, so he was obviously a literate man. He was buried in Swinstead churchyard in 1814 aged eighty-five years, and his gravestone is still there.

Robert and Mary lived at Clipsham for the first years of their married life together.  It was there that seven of their ten children were christened between 1791 and 1801. The family moved to Swinstead in the very early years of the nineteenth century. At this time Robert seems to have ceased tailoring to take up farming - most probably as a tenant of the Ancaster Estates, though this cannot be proved as the Ancaster records for the period 1804 to 1830 are missing. Robert and Mary stayed at Swinstead for the rest of their lives - Robert was buried there on 27th April 1822 (a family bible records that he died the previous day) aged sixty-five years. Mary died on 16th September 1829 aged sixty-four years, and was buried at Swinstead three days later. Robert and Mary's ten recorded children (taking Robert's total up to thirteen) were Elizabeth, Charles, Thomas, William, CHARLES, John, Henry, Sarah, George and Ann.


CHARLES SHARMAN, the fifth child of Robert Sharman and Mary (née Maxey), was born on 1st November 1795. He married Jane Bond at Swinstead on 1st June 1818. Jane had been born on 13th February 1791. Charles signed the marriage register with a cross so presumably he could not write. He seems to have gained status fairly rapidly because at the christenings of his children he was described as a labourer in 1819, a cottager in 1821 and a farmer in 1823. This last progression could well have been enabled by the death in 1822 of Charles's father if, as is likely, Charles took over Robert's tenancy when he died. The 1841 census lists Charles Sharman as farming Swinstead Lodge, now called Norwood Farm, between Grimsthorpe and Swinstead. Charles and Jane had eight children - THOMAS, Mary Ann, George, Henry, John, Sarah, Charles and Taylor. Charles senior died on 11th September 1847 aged fifty-one years, and was buried at Swinstead on 14th September. Jane died on 15th January 1881, and was buried at Swinstead on 19th January. The burial register quotes her age as eighty-nine, but the Stamford Mercury gave her age as ninety years. Her gravestone is still in good condition, and correctly refers to her having died in her ninetieth year.

THOMAS SHARMAN, the oldest child of Charles and Jane, was born on 27th April 1819, and was christened at Swinstead on 2nd May that year. At the time of the 1851 census he was farming Swinstead Lodge with his mother, his father Charles having died four years earlier. Whites Directory of 1872 recorded him as being of Norwoods Farm, and the Ancaster Estate records show that in 1885 he was a tenant of 339 acres in Swinstead, 89 acres in Irnham and 49 acres in Corby. On 7th December 1858 Thomas married Jane Hoyles at Old Bolingbroke. Jane had been born on 30th December 1823 at Mavis Enderby near Spilsby, but had moved from there to the Swinstead area on 12th July 1829. She was given a small bible, which still exists, by her godfather to commemorate the move. It is unclear how long she lived near Swinstead for the first time, but when she was married at about thirty-five years old her place of residence was quoted as Raithby which is near Mavis Enderby. Thomas died on 27th February 1890 at Swinstead, and was buried there on 2nd March. Jane died on 29th December 1902 (the day before her seventy-ninth birthday) at Castle Bytham, and was buried at Swinstead just two days later. Thomas and Jane had five children - Jane (born in 1861), Thomas Hoyles (1862), Annie Mary (1865), William Taylor (1866) and Sarah Elizabeth (1869).